Carolyn Burke STL Blog

A Disaster?  Not Quite... The process of planning a wedding can often damage friendships, lead to arguments with in-laws, shatter hopes and cause huge power struggles. When you are preparing for your special day, don't forget what it's really all about. Don't Give Others Too Much Power Sometimes brides-to-be feel the need to please others to ensure that their special day is a success. Often, giving in to the whims of family and friends can lead to disaster. If you give someone enough power to ruin your day, isn't that your choice? Remember that it's your day to shine. Don't Become "Bridezilla" If you're obsessing over every little tiny detail, thinking about it all day and having nightmares about it at night, you can lose sight of what really matters.  Focus on the fact that it's a day about the two of you creating a bond and a union. Learn to Ask for and Accept Help from Loved Ones Don't be afraid to invite your closest frie...

For wary brides trying to create order out of the chaos, here are some 'BAD VENDOR' signs to watch for when planning a wedding at a distance: Tuxedo Does Not Fit Doesn't Supply a Clear Contract  The way a vendor handles the contract is the same way they will handle your wedding day. If a vendor doesn't provide a contract at all, gives you one that looks like a five-year-old wrote it, or says simply, "We don't need one", take it as an indicator of things to come. Anyone who has a legitimate wedding business should be able to provide a quality written, legible contract in a timely fashion. Doesn't Answer Your Questions  If a wedding vendor seems more interested in getting paid than your wedding day, get out - and get out now. Don't expect all wedding vendors to be sensitive and caring to the point of tears - that's what your parents are for. But do expect them to care about their service to you and your satisfaction. If they b...

The process of planning a wedding can often damage friendships, lead to arguments with in-laws, shatter hopes and cause huge power struggles. When you are preparing for your special day, don't forget what it's really all about. Don't Give Others Too Much Power Sometimes brides-to-be feel the need to please others to ensure that their special day is a success. Often, giving in to the whims of family and friends can lead to disaster. If you give someone enough power to ruin your day, isn't that your choice? Remember that it's your day to shine. Don't Become "Bridezilla" If you're obsessing over every little tiny detail, thinking about it all day and having nightmares about it at night, you can lose sight of what really matters.  Focus on the fact that it's a day about the two of you creating a bond and a union. Learn to Ask for and Accept Help from Loved Ones Don't be afraid to invite your closest friends and family to help with s...