For wary brides trying to create order out of the chaos, here are some 'BAD VENDOR' signs to watch for when planning a wedding at a distance:
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Doesn't Supply a Clear Contract
The way a vendor handles the contract is the same way they will handle your wedding day. If a vendor doesn't provide a contract at all, gives you one that looks like a five-year-old wrote it, or says simply, "We don't need one", take it as an indicator of things to come. Anyone who has a legitimate wedding business should be able to provide a quality written, legible contract in a timely fashion.
Doesn't Answer Your Questions
If a wedding vendor seems more interested in getting paid than your wedding day, get out - and get out now. Don't expect all wedding vendors to be sensitive and caring to the point of tears - that's what your parents are for. But do expect them to care about their service to you and your satisfaction. If they brush off your questions or make you feel belittled because you asked them, they will not care about your satisfaction on your wedding day.
Bad Communication
The way vendors answer their phones and return calls and e-mails immediately shows whether a vendor is a winner or not. If you have a hard time getting a hold of them, you don't seem to understand each other, or they don't speak your language, get someone else. Plenty of great wedding vendors want your business and you should be patient enough to find that perfect fit, like you found your perfect mate.
Isn't Willing to Meet in Person
If a wedding vendor isn't willing to meet in person, it could be a warning sign of a few different things. One, their business doesn't exist; two, they only want your money and are less interested in providing support or service; or three, they are so booked with other weddings that they can't concentrate enough on any single one. Find a vendor who has time for you and understands the importance of meeting in person.
Too Inexpensive
A wedding vendor that is too inexpensive can be almost as poisonous to your wedding as a wedding vendor that doesn't show up at all. This is because wedding vendors who charge very little may show up, but perform poorly or get your instructions wrong. Look for the good deal, but be careful.
These bad vendor signs are just a few of dozens to watch for.
Other signs to look for include:
- The vendor won't provide you with references.
- He or she treats you poorly.
- He or she has a shady location with a P.O. Box.
- You start getting hit with hidden fees.