The task of pinning and placing the corsage and boutonnière for family members and the wedding party may seem trivial and not important. The thought is usually not on your mind and it sometimes falls into the hands of someone who is inexperienced or it goes un-noticed.
TIMING is everything! Carolyn Burke makes sure to have this task completed before the photographer starts taking pictures or the processional begins.
Below are some TIPS for choosing corsages and boutonnières.
Corsages are meant to designate special female family members. Typically, the mothers and grandmothers of both the bride and the groom wear corsages over their left breast (over their heart). However, you may also give corsages to special friends or those participating in your wedding ceremony, such as your readers, soloist or musician. Here are a few things to keep in mind when choosing your corsages.
The price of corsages can range anywhere from $25 to $100 or more, depending on the size and type of flowers. If you are on a budget, stay with a simple corsage.
Be careful not to make the corsage so elaborate, that it becomes large and heavy. Today, there are many delicate fabrics, such as silk, that can not withstand a pin through the fabric or the ability to support a heavy corsage. In most cases, when it comes to corsages -- smaller is better.
Corsages can be worn in many different ways. They can be pinned to the dress, attached to a purse or worn around the wrist. It's a good idea to ask the person who will be wearing the corsage, which style they prefer to wear. You might also ask about the color of their dress in order to help you choose flowers for the corsage that best compliments their wedding attire. Then, give all this information to your florist.
A great alternative to the corsage (and cost effective too) -- give that special person a single rose or very small bouquet tied with tulle and ribbon. The hand held flower or bouquet looks great in the wedding pictures and when the mothers are escorted down the aisle.
Boutonnières are meant to designate your ushers, best man and special male family members. Typically, the father and grandfather of both the bride and the groom wear boutonnières on the left lapel of their jacket. Here are a few things to keep in mind when choosing your boutonnières.
Boutonnières can range in price range anywhere from $6- $20, depending on the type of flower(s) and the intricacy of the design. If you are on a budget, stick with a simple style.
The groom's boutonnière should be different in style, color or type of flower from the other groomsmen. For example, a white rose can be used for the groom and a colored rose (to match bridesmaid attire) can be used for the best man and ushers.
The most popular flower used for boutonnières is roses. Other flowers that can be used include; small orchids, stephanotis, freesia, or carnations. Many times a flower in the bride's bouquet is also used for the groom's boutonnière.
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